
最好的捷径往往就是不走捷径,眼望星空,脚踏实地。有两个词,延时满足和即时满足。李诞说过一段话:我们的人类发展史,就是一段压抑欲望的历史。在以前,世界上有两种人。一种奉行着采集文明,想吃果子了马上就摘下来吃。他们获得了快乐,但这种人最终被淘汰了,活下来的是那些不快乐的种地的人。采集叫即时满足,而种地,春天种,等好几个月秋天收,这个叫延迟满足。所以我们整个人类文明发展史,就是在培养自己的延时满足欲望的能力。
从20世纪60年代开始,生产力超过消费能力了。理论上来说,从那个时候起,我们就可以过上即时满足的人生了。我们不太需要再延迟满足自己,但我们仍然在不断培养自己的延时满足能力,这是因为拥有这种能力,才能游刃有余去面对未来的发展浪潮。
一 小高又来了。
问,成哥,最近看你文章更新越来越频繁了,看你平时都很忙,是怎么做到工作和文章同时在线呢?
我说,很简单,我给自己定了一个目标,每天多工作一小时,这一小时就是我的输出时间。其实很多市面上教写作的人,都是教表面的东西,比如标题,文章格式,写作技巧等等,这都不是重点。重点是输出,真正教你怎么写作的人,是教你如何学习,如何建立信息管道,如果过滤信息,思考问题。写作是把你学习到的东西,成体系化,揉碎了写出来,这本身就是在吸收处理知识,所以如何吸收,如何处理,是写作的关键。
所以为什么很多人说,输出倒逼输入,以写代学,也是这个道理。当你输入足够多时,自然需要输出。人也是需要平衡的,当输入的东西够多时,你自然会拿起笔把这些东西写出来,有的是写日记,有的是做视频,总之,你总要有发泄的窗口。
每天的输出,就是我的窗口。我经常劝身边的人去写文章,做视频,去输出自己,那我自己就应该躬身入局。何况我们本身就喜欢研究流量,也是做流量出身的,而现在最好的流量获取方式,就是让内容在渠道中流动,在流动的过程中,中途上车的人,就是你的流量。每天保持输出,也是让自己亲身体验这场流动的感受。
小高说,成哥,这几天来这里,经常看到你在研究其它项目,你之前不是说,想做成一个项目的前提,就是钻研一个项目时,眼里只有这个项目吗。看到一个人做XX项目,日入一万,你也好好做你日入一千的项目。
我说,对,这是做一个项目,从0-1最关键的点,就是两耳不闻窗外事。但是当你项目稳定时,想要找寻突破口,就需要朝外看,多出去走走,多出去交流,看看别人是怎么赚钱的。我认识很多操盘手,后面都慢慢进化成一个投资人,因为他有多个从0到1的项目经历,可以把操盘成功一个项目的能力,复制成N个,这也是突破收入瓶颈的方式。通过资本运作和矩阵玩法,复制自己,复制能力,复制项目。现在我的项目也已经稳定了,所以我研究项目,是为了保持手感。创业和读书一样,需要每天刷题,看题,来保持自己的敏感度。

二 商业的美妙,在于它的嫁接能力。
我还说过一句话,即使你不做短视频,也要去了解它的机制,玩法,因为你需要知道这个世界正在发生着什么。而且商业的美妙,在于它的嫁接能力。厉害的人,可以把生活的细节,转化为商业机会。可以把行业A的玩法,搬到行业B。可以把自己的项目,嫁接在风口趋势中,承接在新渠道和模式中。比如互联网+万物。
小高说,现在的文章定位是什么呢,成功。
我说,其实我写文章的风格比较随性,写想什么就写什么,因为我一直强调,我并不靠做自媒体赚钱,而往往不靠某样东西赚钱,才能把这件事做好。但是像普通人也能月入十万的XX项目,这类风格的文章我不会写,因为这样才能过滤一些不匹配的读者,从而沉淀更有思维高度的一群人。那些想看一篇项目文章就能年入百万的,不是我需要的用户,我并不靠割韭菜为生。迎合一部分人,就要失去一部分人,这是必然的。我想要的很简单,与各位一起慢慢变富。
三 思维重要,还是让你赚钱重要?
钱只能赚一时,而懂得了思维,也许会成就你更多,更多。当然,碰到一些好玩,蓝海,有发展前景的项目,我也会多多分享,但我不能保证,你看了就能赚到钱,我也没能力把钱放进你的口袋。我一直强调,要培养自己的核心能力,这是你能驾驭项目的基础。
小高问,那创业有捷径吗?
我说,如果你非要问我捷径,有,那就是跟对合适的人。比如让一个电商日赚十万的人,教你一天赚500,相当于让他重新用自己的经验和资源重新开一家店,应该绰绰有余吧?你要做的只有四个字,听话照做。
小高问,这不也是一种即时满足吗,让别人带着你赚钱。
我说,没错。但是跟对人这个前提,本身就是需要延时满足这个条件。倘如只会跟着别人背后要钱,又不想做事,过后又独占成果,这种人如何才能跟对人?别人如何会让他跟寻?往往能找到人引领的,本身就具备延时满足这一条件,因为拥有利他思维和长期思维的人,才有人愿意带。会分钱也是一种延时满足,比如别人带我赚了100万,我该给他多少钱?
小高说,50万。
我说,100万。把自己的利益滞后,先成就他人,而不是先成交他人。有朋友找我对接资源时,我就会把圈子里合适的人免费推给他。至于我,当他们之间产生价值时,自然会有我自己的价值。有时候虽然我本身并没提供什么,但双方合作成功时,都会给我一个大红包,超出我预期的红包,这也是一种分钱的能力。如果下次他再找我帮忙时,我会不会把身边更优秀的资源对接给他?

如果你想超越一个人,就要研究他的老师,成长路径。老师可以是具体的人,也可以是具体的作品,比如书,电影,文章,了解他们是怎么开悟,往往比研究他们本身更有用。因为只是研究人,那你永远跳不出他的框架。你研究西游记,那你只能无限接近吴承恩。有很多人看人物传记,只是喜欢看其中的故事,往往忽略了其他的重点。比如他的人生关键节点,有启发的书,经历,文章,以及时代背景下的限制与时机,都是需要探索的。
所以如果要我推荐书籍,那我首先推荐的,就是阅读你们行业顶尖人物的传记,把自己代入进那个环境,那个时代,那个背景,当你遇到相同问题时,你会如何进行思考,决策。知道解决问题的答案并不重要,学会解答问题的思路才重要。人物传记有个很美妙的作用,就是让自己和作者一起,走入那个属于他的时代。这是一种跨时空,且无声的交谈。
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