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人生最重要的是方向而不是努力

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今天在上海，打到一辆出租车，不是网约车的那种，司机25年驾龄。交谈中互相觉得还挺投缘，他告诫我，人生最重要的是方向，而不是努力。 1.jpg (107.02 KB, 下载次数: 0) 下载附件 昨天&…

今天在上海，打到一辆出租车，不是网约车的那种，司机25年驾龄。交谈中互相觉得还挺投缘，他告诫我，人生最重要的是方向，而不是努力。

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他跟我说1995-2005年，他每月赚10000，两年的时间就可以在上海买个房子，当时一套10万的样子。但是他没有买，因为他有两个梦想，一个是买一个出租车运营牌照自己做老板，第二个是要给女儿留一笔嫁妆，必须是百万级的，因为当时女儿刚出生。

2005年之后，私营的上海出租车牌照每年涨五万，直到2014年，他攒足了60万拿下一块牌照，但后来因为网约车暴跌掉80%，他又抛了。这几年又找了个出租车公司打工，现在一月5000，不吃不喝一年只能在上海买一个平米。然而，1998年开始，他的几个同事以每两年买一套老破小的速度，现在靠拆迁实现了人生自由，在他眼里，他们是“脑子最活络的一群人。”

他觉得这20多年他都白忙了，现在女儿大学刚毕业，百万嫁妆是准备好了，但觉得女儿的对象不理想，属于不踏实，脑子很活络的那种，他不太放心。交谈中，他还拿出手机给我看了他女儿的照片。女儿很好看，属于很上镜的那种，典型的知识分子类型，我开始好奇她女儿现在有没有对象，有没有结婚计划、旅拍跟拍婚纱照是否想了解一下….但我有点害羞，不知道怎么开口。

只不过我刚才电话实在有点多，一直没有办法把交谈继续下去。于是他说：“小伙子，人生要看准方向!做一件对的事，这要比把一件事情做对更重要!” 我说“叔叔你放心!所有的经历都是人生的宝贵财富，我会加油!”

他摇摇头，可能还是觉得我太文艺了，也没有再向我提及他的女儿。但他其实也是矛盾的，如果不希望女婿是活络的，难道要女婿复刻他的遗憾吗?

我到目的地下车了…

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